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Writer's pictureGeneviรจve Dussault

Between The Seams: ๐–๐ก๐ฒ ๐ซ๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ ๐ข๐ง ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ž ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ.

Updated: Mar 4

๐€๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ง ๐’๐ž๐ง๐š๐ญ๐จ๐ซ ๐‰๐จ๐ก๐ง ๐…๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ง ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐๐ข๐ž ๐จ๐ง ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ซ?


The media on either side of the political spectrum are trying to make the discussion on whether this is, or isnโ€™t, a lack of respect for the American people and congress โ€ฆ but I believe the core issue lies in the slow death of our rituals and traditions.


Just as beauty is something we pursue for its own sake (Scruton), ritual and tradition should ๐๐Ž๐“ be boiled down into a ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ง ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž.


This is a difficult concept for some to understand who has been fully brainwashed into the dogma of โ€œlive your truthโ€ and โ€œdo what makes you happy.โ€ A concept I find laughable seeing as we live in a time with the highest rates of depression in recorded history while simultaneously having the highest rate of people living tโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘–๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘ข๐‘กโ„Ž.


These โ€œcodesโ€ are meant to benefit you long term by instilling self-care practices: groom your hair, cut your nails, shine your shoes. Teach you patience; You canโ€™t rush the basics if you want them done well. Care for your possessions by cleaning and maintaining rather than replacing them with cheap disposable plastic goods. Attention to detail, I care about the small things and as such you can trust me to care for the big things. All while exhibiting to others your dedication to process and tradition.


As Sullivan said, โ€œโ€ฆ Form ever follows function.โ€ The function here being a representative of the peopleโ€”The reason we, as a society, determined these outfits to be our uniforms, is not trivial, it is because at some point we determined that uniform is not only necessary but ๐›๐ž๐ง๐ž๐Ÿ๐ข๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ to our societal structure and systems! Itโ€™s why a police officer, plumber, monk and congressman donโ€™t wear the same outfit or leather bondage & ball gag during their unique occupations. Uniform, Uniformity, Cohesion, Tradition. Just because some cannot see beyond their utilitarian perspective, doesnโ€™t mean there is no greater significance to the act, process, and objects inhabiting an environment.


You may not like conformity, you may not like hierarchy, but whether you like it or not, if you live in an urban environment, you are playing in the great game. Your rebellion towards appearances simply reveals to contestants that you are of no threat, importance, or value in the game as you seem unwilling to participate in the most basic of rules, the dress code. This is not 100% the rule as Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™ll have some successful people jump down my throat as they exclaim their sweat pants prowess; however, we all judge, all the time, subconsciously or overtly, donโ€™t kid yourself.


Good luck out there men


Donโ€™t live your truthโ€”Live a hard meaningful life with lots of tradition, rituals, and values!



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